After repeatedly making excuses for him and giving myself reasons to stay on with him regardless of promptings from The Holy Spirit to walk out of the wrong relationship I was in, i got an uneasy feeling that something was wrong.
When a lady in a too tight outfit dances in front of you or is near you, do you zoom in or focus on her and then say ”Na wa o, women of nowadays, they will certainly not land a man in trouble with these ridiculous things they wear and call clothes. Blood of Jesus o!”, Yet, your eyes are still focusing on her, or will you sharply divert your attention or perhaps leave the scene as fast as you can?
My response to him: First of, there is no commandemant in the bible that says ‘Thou shalt not love or marry her if she is older than you’.
I know that sometimes the pain is so intense, it is almost mind numbing. You do not understand how God can love you so much and yet, allow so much pain your way.
However, prevention is always better than cure. Before the love tank gets drained, plan vacations for two, dinner for two. Let her just dress up and feel pretty and without the kids, go out to a function or date nights with you.
I am in a relationship/ courtship and she is insecure. Over and over again, i have tried reassuring her that she is the one i intend to build my life around and create a family with, with little success and her insecurity is almost frustrating. Please what can i do to make her trust me?
My advice for single women is this: Please, a man may come to you looking downtrodden and poor. He may look like a sack of bones with his shoes facing heaven and giving God praise, this does not mean you should scorn him and reject his proposal. Remember, Bishop Mike, Big Daddy always says “Never write off anyone sitting under the word of God”.