Do I now tell the woman I love about my children? When do I tell her? Before I propose to her? After she agrees to marry me? Or as some friends have advised me, Should I tell her after we are married?
It is unadvisable for a lady to go live alone with a single relative of the opposite sex no matter the circumstances. It is however God that protects one because stories abound of sexual abuse from relatives regardless of sex (female relatives introducing lesbianism, male relatives introducing homosexuality etcetera).
A man who stays aside, crosses his legs and allows his woman to run around begging for financial aid clearly does not love his woman. A woman exposes herself to temptation or people who will take sexual and all sorts of advantage of her when she runs from one man or woman to the other, desperately looking for money.
However, you cannot be in a defined relationship with any of these ladies while you are still trying to make your decision. It is also wrong to be in a defined relationship with all of these ladies at the same time(Back up plan disallowed!). If you are, you need to prayerfully end things now! That is the reason you are indecisive (confused).
There is no denying the influence of mothers in our lives and the Bible commands us to honour and respect our parents, however, you cannot blame anyone for the outcome of your life. You have to take responsibility for your life: decisions, actions and reactions, even to parental counsel.
Indeed God deserves our praise. Instead of counting what He hasn’t done. Thank Him for that He has done, For the mighty deliverances, for the victories He gave you in 2014…
Dear Yvonne: I am so afraid to propose although i am certain she is the one, Please help!