However, you cannot be in a defined relationship with any of these ladies while you are still trying to make your decision. It is also wrong to be in a defined relationship with all of these ladies at the same time(Back up plan disallowed!). If you are, you need to prayerfully end things now! That is the reason you are indecisive (confused).
There is no denying the influence of mothers in our lives and the Bible commands us to honour and respect our parents, however, you cannot blame anyone for the outcome of your life. You have to take responsibility for your life: decisions, actions and reactions, even to parental counsel.
Indeed God deserves our praise. Instead of counting what He hasn’t done. Thank Him for that He has done, For the mighty deliverances, for the victories He gave you in 2014…
Dear Yvonne: I am so afraid to propose although i am certain she is the one, Please help!
After repeatedly making excuses for him and giving myself reasons to stay on with him regardless of promptings from The Holy Spirit to walk out of the wrong relationship I was in, i got an uneasy feeling that something was wrong.
When a lady in a too tight outfit dances in front of you or is near you, do you zoom in or focus on her and then say ”Na wa o, women of nowadays, they will certainly not land a man in trouble with these ridiculous things they wear and call clothes. Blood of Jesus o!”, Yet, your eyes are still focusing on her, or will you sharply divert your attention or perhaps leave the scene as fast as you can?
My response to him: First of, there is no commandemant in the bible that says ‘Thou shalt not love or marry her if she is older than you’.