This man had taken all the love she had to give and let it fall, like a piece of glass, shattering into innumerable pieces. Was she now that worthless to him that he had to let her go so cruelly?
To outside observers, we are a solid couple with lovely kids. We both have respectable careers and are respected members of the church, however; my husband still keeps his mistress and dare I complain; he hits me.
If he truly loves you and wants to marry you, he should love who you are, not the version of you he is forcefully trying to create, just to fit into his own purposes, if that is the case.
Why do you feel a need to close your bank accounts and transfer all your funds into your fiancé’ account? Is he or anyone else putting you under pressure to do so? Against your will or you wish to do it out of your own free will?
Do I now tell the woman I love about my children? When do I tell her? Before I propose to her? After she agrees to marry me? Or as some friends have advised me, Should I tell her after we are married?
It is unadvisable for a lady to go live alone with a single relative of the opposite sex no matter the circumstances. It is however God that protects one because stories abound of sexual abuse from relatives regardless of sex (female relatives introducing lesbianism, male relatives introducing homosexuality etcetera).
A man who stays aside, crosses his legs and allows his woman to run around begging for financial aid clearly does not love his woman. A woman exposes herself to temptation or people who will take sexual and all sorts of advantage of her when she runs from one man or woman to the other, desperately looking for money.